Thomas Fordham [B568]
b.1843 31 May - Cowick, Yorkshire, England
d.1932 -
----- Parents -----
Henry Fordham
Sarah Mitchell
----- Siblings -----
Thomas Fordham [B568]
Elizabeth Fordham [B457]
----- Marriages -----
m01. 1866 25 Dec - Cairo, WV + Mary Ann Hatfield (9 Children)
----- Children -----
Sarah Fordham [B569]
William C Fordham [B570]
Laura L Fordham [B571]
Jacob H Fordham [B579]
Etta V Fordham [B580]
Harlan V Fordham [B581]
Anna Fordham [B582]
Thomas S Fordham [B587]
Mary E Fordham [B597]
WANDERING'S OF A LIFETIME
THOMAS FORDHAM
I was born on the 31st May 1843 in the small town of Cowick, Yorkshire,
England, near to the town of Selby, where my mother was raised. My mother
was Sarah Mitchell whose parents William and Sarah Mitchell lived on a
farm on what was known as Combleworth Common. Besides farming they also
made bricks and tiles. The Common, as it was called, was unfenced and had
some growth of brush, which made a good harbor for rabbits and birds.
My grandmother was a good kind woman and my happiest childhood days was
when I could be there. They had four daughters and five sons. My mother,
being the oldest girl, died when I was about six years of age and she be
about twenty-six.
My father, Henry Fordham, was a native of Yorkshire, England, and was a
watch and clock maker as was his father, John Brett Fordham of
Knottingley.
They made the old English Brass Clocks, but the German wooden clocks,
which were made by machinery could be sold so much cheaper that it ruined
their trade, although they still followed the repair business.
My father was married in 1841 to Sarah Mitchell and to this union five
children were born. One died in infancy, two about three years. I was the
second born and can just remember my mother. Elizabeth was the fourth who
grew to womanhood and married Abner Hatfield and raised a family of eight.
After mother's death we were then living in England at a place called
Ferryridge. Father was again married to my Aunt Hannah Mitchell and to
them a son was born named Henry. When Henry was three months old Father
immigrated to the United States and to show how our plans oft go wrong,
or so we think, we were to take a ship to New York and from there go to
Cincinnati. However, when we got to Liverpool the ship had sailed, so we
took another ship to Baltimore Md., about or near the middle of May 1851.
My eighth birthday was on the Atlantic Ocean. I well remember the first
rock of the ship and how it scared us children but many a rock we
experienced before we got to this side. One storm tore a sail or two into
strips and broke one yard arm in two, and made a job for the ships
carpenter, but strange as it may appear it didn't arouse me from my sleep
and I knew nothing of the storm until the next day.
Often we experienced head winds causing the ship to have to tack about or
instead of a direct course we had to go in a north-west or south-west
direction alternately to gain any headway. Then again we would experience
calms when there would be little or no wind and the water would be
perfectly smooth.
One incident I remember was a burial at sea. A man had died on the way.
He was sewed up in a canvas and it was said a sack of coal attached and
he was placed on a plank ran over the side of the ship and tipped into
the Ocean. I don't remember any service but most likely there was.
We saw icebergs near the banks of Newfoundland and some cold weather. The
sailors fished some on or about the banks, but only caught one cod fish.
I was looking, watching them draw in the line and saw the fish taken out
of the water. The Captains wife sent us some after it was cooked and to
be sure it tasted good.
What a grateful sight it was when we got into the Chesapeak Bay and up
the Petapsco River! The scenery was very fine after being nine long weeks
on the water. We landed in Baltimore about the 23rd July 1851. The
Captains name was Chase and his ship was the Athens. He and his wife were
very kind to us.
After our arrival in Baltimore, father, and another Englishman, went
ashore and during their stroll they run across some tomatoes and they
looked so nice and red they bought one thinking they must be good - they
were not used to that kind of fruit. Directly they bit into their fruit
and made a very wry face. A little native saw them and he says "Mister,
them things is poison", so they threw them into the street and the little
native picked them up and ate them himself.
The emigrants at that time was mostly from Ireland. There were several
hundred on our ship and only a few English. One particular was so lively
and full of jokes. He kept some of the passengers cheered up when they
would be inclined to be discouraged on account of the long voyage.
We were in poor circumstances on our arrival in Baltimore. It had cost
more than was expected as it was expected that the trip wouldn't be over
six weeks. Father rented some rooms but before he could find any work he
had a serious spell of fever. Ship fever they called it, but it was about
the same as Typhoid. Our old captain came in about that time and left ten
dollars which was a great help and showed a kind heart. After he
recovered, but not entirely well, he went out in search of work and took
a relapse of the fever. He finally recovered and found employment in a
machine shop. After a time he lost his job and found work with a gas
meter company making movements for the meters, it was a good deal like
clock work. He worked for them for near seven years, then came the panic
of 1857 which caused hard times and no work for many. Father was out of
work. I got a job in the warehouse of a potter at $1.50 per week and me
about 14 years old, when I ought to have been going to school.
In 1855 father's second wife died and he married the following year Miss
B. Ellen Gettier of Baltimore but the next year 1857 was a hard time, for
so many was out of work that we began to look for some change. In the
early Spring of 1858 father fixed himself up repairing clocks and watches
etc. He took a trip to Western Virginia and went on to Parkersburg.
Someone he got to talking with told him of a settlement of English and
Scotch back in Ritchie County at Cairo, Egypt, but how it got the name of
Egypt is another story. He had some success and returned to Baltimore and
made the necessary arrangements to move his family to Cairo where we
lived in a small house about three miles below Cairo on the North Fork of
the Hughes River. Here I received my first lessons in the use of an axe
for cutting firewood and spent some idle time fishing and driving a cow
to and from pasture. After 18 months at this place we moved to Calhoune
County on to a tract of land owned by Mr. Bennett who was a friend of my
Father. I had been there cutting down trees in an unbroken forest making
but little progress clearing the land. It was very rough and of little
account for farming. It was a mistake of inexperience going into hot back
woods country to try to make a living. I could tell a good deal of our
experiences in Calhoune County but it would be of little or no benefit to
anyone. We lived or rather existed there about three years.
As the Civil War was going on in 1863 we removed to Illinois to Sandoval
at the junction of the Illinois Central and Ohio and Mississippi
Railroad's, the latter is now part of the Baltimore and Ohio system. At
that time it had a six-foot gauge. We had to travel the first forty miles
by wagon and was the most of two days going that distance. On arriving at
Ravenswood we had to wait for a boat. Father had a young mare and on
account of Guerrillas we went round Parkersburg and down the river so
that in a short time we got our goods on a boat and we took passage for
Cincinnati, intending going by railroad to Sandoval. However, we found
that the Government had the road to ship troops and supplies west, so we
had to take another boat, the Silver Lake, to go to St. Louis and then
take the other end of the railroad to get back to Sandoval. The family
all went by rail except my brother Henry and I. We had to take charge of
the horse and go over land about sixty miles, which we did in two days
and two nights. The first six miles was across the Mississippi bottom
then the land gradually raised toward the middle of the State, mostly
with belts of timber along the streams.
After we got settled I worked for a Canadian farmer on a 160-acre farm
and helped to stack, thrash and haul wheat. He had some over 600 bushels,
so it took some work, besides about 40 acres of corn. I got along very
well, this being my first experience in farming. I was well pleased with
the country until August when chills and fever commenced. That summer and
fall it was a regular epidemic and I was no exception and I had my share
of it. I was hauling wheat at this time and about five miles, and at
times I would get overheated and first I began to feel chilly when I went
in at the end of my days work and finally I was laid up. Then my view of
the nice country took a change.
I didn't have a very good health that winter. About a week after New
Year's we had one of the most severe cold spells which lasted near two
weeks. In the spring of 1864 father concluded to go back to W.Va and
started me and brother Henry back - for what I don't know. We were to go
to Callhoun, but providence directed it otherwise. We travelled all one
night on the fast train to Cincinnati arriving there in the morning and
took a boat to Ravenswood, but we heard so much about the guerillas on
the way we concluded to go on to Parkersburg. We arrived there in the
morning too late for the train east and as there was only one train daily
I concluded we could walk the 30 miles to Cairo rather than to stay
overnight in Parkersburg.
As we knew nothing of the County roads we took the railroad and it was
hard walking. When we got to Silver Run Tunnel we thought we would take a
near cut to William Wells on whose place we first lived after coming from
Baltimore, but we missed the right path and dark coming on. We found we
were going downhill so after a while we came in sight of a house and
inquired who lived there. They said it was Richard Rutherford's place.
That was quite a relief as we were about worn out. They took us in and
treated us very kindly and let us stay a few days until we got rested,
then we went up the river to Jas McKinney's. There the Home Guard was out
as some Guerillas had been seen, but they were gone.
I went to Mr. Jacob Hatfields and rented an old house to have some place
to stay. We borrowed some bedclothes and made a bunk to sleep in. I had
contracted a cold and it run into Pneumonia. I sent Henry to Mr.
Godfrey's with whom father was well acquainted and while he was gone Mr.
Hatfield came in and told me I would have to get out of that or I would
die. He told me I could go to this home, but the Godfrey's sent for me to
go there, and there I had quite a spell of sickness. They got a doctor
from Harrisville. I had the daughter to write to father, he answered and
said they were all coming back, which they did in a few days arriving at
Cairo and they went to live in the house I had rented.
After a time I went to work on the grading of the old Calico railroad
that was being constructed from Cairo to the Ritchie Mines. I only worked
about twenty days when I enlisted in the United States Service in the war
that was drawing to its close September 16th 1864 and served nearly nine
months when our Regiment was ordered to Wheeling to be mustered out June
10th 1865. We had a fine ride to Wheeling some in box cars and others on
flats. At Wheeling our Regiment made quite a show - sixteen company's and
but few of them saw any hard service as they was used as Railroad guards.
Our Colonel was a Mexican veteran and had lost his right arm in that war
and that was the reason he was given that duty. In February 1865 my
father enlisted in the U.S. Service - this was the last call for troops
in the Civil War.
He moved the family to Cornwallis. About the latter part of May we was
ordered to Wheeling to be mustered out. It took about three weeks to get
all necessary papers made out. On the tenth June we was paid off and
mustered out. We was left to get back home the best we could. We came
down the Ohio river on a boat to Parkersburg, thence by rail to
Cornwallis. I worked as a trackhand about three months with an Irishman
as boss, then in the tunnels with Bob Johnson when they was constructed
with heavy timbers. This was on repair work. We moved on the Godfrey Farm
in the latter part of 1865 Mr. Godfrey having gone west and we raised a
crop of corn and would have had some wheat but it froze out so bad that
there was nothing in the spring.
In June 1865 I was baptised and received into the Harrisville Baptist
Church. In 1866 I worked on the grading of the Calico Railroad a second
time and boarded at Mr. Hatfield's awhile and was married on Christmas
Day to the oldest daughter Mary Ann. In the spring of 1867 we moved into
a log shanty built in about four days by four of us and lived in it about
one year. Here our first child was born.
In 1867 we then moved over to the Godfrey Farm to raise a crop and had
good success both in raising and selling the crop. We lived in a small
shanty on the banks of the river and so well hid that the assessor didn't
find me, but that was made up the next year!
In 1867 I worked in the tunnels again while they were being arched, one
summer and winter. The same summer, the Reverend P.A. Woods told Mr.
Hatfield of a farm over on the south fork of the Hughes River of about
400 acres known as the Tibbs Farm that was for sale. It was owned by
George Passmore who had bought it for oil purposes but the excitement
went down leaving it on his hands. It was bought for �4,000.00 and
divided between Abner Hatfield and myself and Mary Ann. It had a one and
half storey frame and a hewed log of one storey which fell to us in which
we lived about four years. We then got out a set of hewed logs and had a
raising of some sixteen hands and put it up in about sixteen feet which
was in time ceiled and weatherboarded with a frame lean-to of twelve by
twenty six feet and the main building is 18 x 26 divided into eight
rooms. I should have said that we moved to the farm in the early spring
of 1869 and lived on the farm for thirty-two years raising crops with
more or less success.
The first serious setback came in the summer of 1875 when we had a big
flood in the South Fork. We had a good deal of bottom land in corn and it
was all destroyed. We had some floods in after years but not much damage
done. One summer later, I don't remember the year, we had the most
destructive one we ever experienced. It swept away some houses and one
Meeting House and piled lumber and all kinds of rubbish on the lower
bottoms of Spruce Creek. There was also one very dry year when corn made
very little unless it was on low ground.
In 1899 we made a visit to Marietta to a brother-in-law, M.A.L. Gracey,
who had married my sister Emma J. Fordham and had died leaving an infant
daughter, Doris. My stepmother had gone there to care for her
granddaughter.
The Norwood addition had been laid. We concluded to buy a lot but didn't
build until the fall of 1901. The house was finished about the middle of
January 1902 and we moved in vacating a house that William C. had built
for himself which we occupied about three months. After we had lived here
three and a half years times got rather close so we went back to the
farm, renting out Norwood House to Mr. Woods for $10.00 per month. He
died while away from home. It was afterwards rented to Mr. Dole in 1906.
The house was partly burned so that it cost $555.00 to rebuild. We
remained on the farm until 1910 when we came back to Marietta. We had two
saw-sets on the farm and although we had house pattern sawed lack of time
we didn't build although we needed another house as Wm C. had moved in to
assist with the work out here.
Mr. Eddy who then occupied the Norwood House got behind with his rent and
had to move out. I tried to sell but failed so we thought best to occupy
it ourselves and let our son have the house on the farm.
The first six years went smoothly then came sickness to my wife in the
fall and winter of 1916. Although she was in a serious condition for
several weeks she finally recovered but was not able to stand heavy work
such as washing as before that sickness. We went over to the farm in the
fall of 1917 and again in 1918 which was the last trip over there in the
latter part of September. She contracted a severe cold, which ran into
Bronchitis, and had a severe cough. She got better of that but lost flesh
until in the summer of 1919 she weighed only 97 pounds. Sometimes a
little better and other times worse until 1920 when she was confined to
her room. In May she got worse, and is weaker on the 20th. She had some
kind of convulsion and gradually declined until November 24th. She died
leaving me all alone, except our youngest daughter was and is with me.
It was a sad bereavement to me. We had travelled the pathway of life
together for nearly fifty-four years and it was hard for me to realise
that I should see her no more in this life, but my hope is in the `Great
Beyond' and we can sing;
"How Joyful is the thought that lingers, when loved ones cross deaths sea,
That when our labours here are ended, with them we'll ever be."
Thomas Fordham
The above account has been adapted for publication in the Digest magazine
from the original manuscript written by Thomas Fordham aged 77. Wherever
possible the content of the original manuscript has been preserved.
I would like to thank Thomas Fordham's grandson, Randall Arthur Fordham
of Shelby, Ohio, United States, for submitting a copy of the original
manuscript `Wanderings of a Lifetime' for publication in the Digest.